Though you assumed you were dealt the harshest blow when the love of your life surprised you by splitting with you, you’ve latterly learned that she or he is now seeing somebody else! You ask how this is possible after all that you shared. Indeed you start questioning what it was that you shared if your ex can so fast rebound.
When folk rebound it’s because she or he has simply taken the feelings they’d or still have for you and transferred them to somebody else.
Those feelings of love are real ; they’re just directed at the incorrect person. The rationale folk regularly rebound is perhaps because it’s easier to transfer feelings rather than deal with the loss due to the unexpected void in their lives.
There’s an upside to this. Rebounds don’t sometimes last. That is, if you follow my advice, you have a good shot of getting your ex back ; if you do not, you risk the rebound developing into a strong bond. At the moment, the individual that’s in the relationship with your ex gets the best of both worlds, all of the feelings of love thrown at him without the commitment and work it took you to get there.
To get your ex back, step 1 is to implement the no contact rule. There’s truly no other way around this. This means exactly as it sounds, no contact. Don’t call to let your ex know you continue to have his or her CD, don’t call because you did not remember to take his or her name off the joint checking account and you feel like you want to tell him or her, just do it. It suggests no contact.
It’s best to move on with your life
; whether this means to get a hobby, go back to school, whatever it implies, it means go on. If your ex calls to “dump” on you about issues she has with the rebound, offer to listen and your regrets that there are issues, but say nothing else. Express your hope that things work out and mean it. Above all, you would like your ex to be satisfied, even if it is’s not with you. Whatever you do, don’t express anything aside from support.
This “How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back” guide will help you understand what went wrong in your relationship.
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – I hope this helps!